How to Deal With Rejection When Looking for Sex

Many guys consider rejection to be a pain and this is why they avoid asking girls on dates. The story can get even more complicated when the date is about a sex hookup. While we get that you may have your concerns about this one, most of them are a question of prejudice and are biased. It is not true that sex dates with no-strings-attached agenda get so tricky that you start avoiding them. How on Earth you are going to get laid anyway, if you don’t know how to deal when getting rejected for a sex date? In the end, it all comes down to what you consider rejection, failure and success in dating. If you are really having difficulties with dating girls just for sex, start learning your lessons online. Usually, this is safer and more convenient for ‘gentle souls’.

As there are million ways of doing the right thing, we will share three things you might need to avoid if you ever want to improve your sex life. Remember to keep in mind the following three “don’ts”

It is never personal. Whatever the other person says, thinks or does it is never about you, it is always about him or her. People come from subjective positions. There is no one all-encompassing general truth that works for everyone. So, you must stop associating your worth with what other people think of you. Moreover - in the sex arena. Do not listen to the judgements and criticisms, and remember there are a zillion styles to enjoy sex. If someone doesn’t share the same view as you do - keep going.

Even if you really like a girl, don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. One girl is one girl. Even if it comes to more than one girl - two, three or ten, there are so many more around you. What helps is stop feeling entitled. If you can master the non-entitlement skill, you will get your way in ladies’ pants very often. Acting entitled may easily turn you into a jerk. On the other hand, taking a no like a pro makes you instantly more attractive.

You may probably assume that the guy you know that scores several times a week has some dark secret for getting all the sex he wants. What you probably don’t know and no one will tell you, especially not him, is that he gets rejected as many times as he gets laid, if not double or triple the time. Failure is the part of success about no one want to brag about. Not all is shine and stars in the sex lives of guys who are proud to say that they get as much pussy as they want. There is a bitter pill that you must learn swallowing just as everyone does. When you understand that the success in not in the amount of girls you shagged, but in the number of attempts you made, you will have mastered the art of dealing with rejection.

As with any art, practice makes perfect!